Article by Francis K. Githinji

Why do we date? there are as many reasons as to why people are having adult dating fun as there are many people in the world. One of the solid reasons is to have fun. It is basically a fun activity to many individuals. You will hear many singles saying that they want to experience dating fun before they get to commit to one man or woman. Dating for many singles is a confusing social activity. If i may ask you, are you happy in dating? You can either give me a quick defensive response which goes like “why not? off course i am happy” or a bemused response which goes like “Not really, is there a room for that”. Being happy should be a naturally simple concept and you and i wonder why it seems so difficult for an individual to acquire it.

Some people are doing poorly at being happy. Adult dating fun should be a reality to many people whether they are single, married, divorced, single parents. You should be happy under all circumstances and there should be no excuse for dating boredom. There are some dating myths that make it look like the ultimate adult dating fun is immoral. For instance it does not mean that you are crazy if you date a young girl after being a widower for so long. Allow happiness into your life and debunk all the myths that might stand on your way. Many people among them couples think that happiness must be somewhere and it has to be found. My dear one happiness is not “out there”. The truth of the matter is, it is actually within us. It is a not obtained from external sources.

To tell you the truth the ‘out there’ kind of adult dating fun is more of a fantasy than a reality. It is very unwise for you as a person to solely depend on places, people and events to give you happiness. It gives pleasure but it is just mere cream on the cake. To be happy you have to understand that it is a birth right. I know you will identify with the myth that we get happiness in dating since the other person makes us happy. Happiness cannot be bestowed on us by another person. This is simply an illusion created by literature, love songs and culture. If you are not by yourself a happy person, nobody can make you vibrant.

Adult dating fun is an extra bonus to our happiness story but it can never be the whole real story. The mistaken idea that someone makes you happy causes unprecedented levels of heartaches in the society. The myth is dragged into marriages and romantic relationships where it is literally reduced by the weighty foot of disillusionment. The good news i bring to you today is that, you do not need to be suffering if you accept full responsibility of your own happiness. It is a good thing to know that if no one is responsible for making you happy, you too have no responsibility of making anyone happy. Such liberation is true happiness and you will automatically have too much to share with others.

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Francis K. Githinji Is A Online Dating Expert. His Latest Project Dating In Austin Shows How The Power Of Online Dating Can Be Harnessed Internationally and With Great Success, Or You Could Post Your Valued Comments On His Blog At Dating In Austin

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