Coaching principles

Article by Matt Somers

How do you see people

How do you view the potential of people at work? If we think about McGregor’s X and Y theory you might consider yourself to be a Theory X person. That is, that people dislike work and will avoid it wherever possible, and are motivated only by money or fear. Alternatively, you might subscribe to Theory Y which suggests that people work for a range of psychological as well as economic reasons, and are motivated by achievement, responsibility and so on.

It is important to recognise that neither of these views can be proven as right or wrong, they are simply beliefs about human nature based on experience. Our starting point as coaches therefore needs to be which of these views is more useful? Probably Theory Y. It seems to me that a coach is likely to be more helpful if his or her starting point is to believe that the coachee starts with the potential to achieve his or her aims. It is then the job of the coach is to play a part in realising that potential.

Interference

Traditional training and development has proven to be reasonably successful at taking potential and adding to it. Usually this is a question of imbuing the performer with new knowledge or skills. But coaching is more often required when the performance issue is not a lack of knowledge or skill but rather an unwillingness or inability to effectively deploy them. In these circumstances we need to turn our sights to removing the things that get in the way of our performers accessing their potential.

For example, there could be all sorts of external interference.g.

Lack of opportunity Ideas not accepted Blame culture Restrictive policies and procedures

Equally, there might be a number of internal sources of interference, e.g.

Fear of failure Low confidence Low self belief Previous negative experience Negative expectations Negative self talk

Where organisational coaches have the ability to remove external barriers they must do so without hesitation. However, most coaches have far more scope to work on internal barriers which, in any event, are likely to be far more important to address.

P.L.E

With the things that interfere with my potential reduced, I am likely to access far more of my potential and consequently produce high performance, but how can coaches ensure this is sustained?

Motivation theory suggests that high performance is a strong internal driver for most people so shouldn’t it be enough to ask them to simply continue performing well? Unfortunately not. They will get bored and produce new sources of internal interference such as fatigue and lack of concentration.

Motivation theory also suggests that there are a further two strong internal drivers, namely learning and enjoyment. It is clear that if I’m performing well at a task, learning more about it or myself as I undertake it and enjoying the whole experience then I am more likely to sustain my high levels of performance.

Coaches need to help the people they coach find the Performance, Learning and Enjoyment (PLE) factors in their work, e.g.

Performance

Achieving success Doing the job well Pride Sense of self worth

Learning

Satisfying curiosity Improving Gaining insights Developing new skills

Enjoyment

Sense of challenge Team work Fun Social belonging

A.R.T

How then do coaches remove interference and add in learning and enjoyment? They promote Awareness, Responsibility and Trust (ART)

In raising awareness we are seeking to create high quality focus and attention on the matter at hand. As I become more aware of a situation and my feelings for it, I produce more ideas about changes and improvements that I might make. This helps me identify sources of interference as well as being an enjoyable and insightful process.

Coaches also help the people they coach to recognise that they are not victims of circumstance but in fact have a large degree of choice in how they handle situations. In other words, they are responsible. However, before people can move forward they must:

Believe they can Value the outcome Be willing to try

All of which requires interference to be absent and the internal motivators of performance, learning and enjoyment to be present.

Coaches also build trust. They encourage their coachees to

Trust themselves and strengthen self-belief Trust the coach in order to be more honest and thus further raise awareness Trust the coaching process

Coaching

Coaching is the process of raising awareness, generating responsibility and building trust. The skills are asking incisive questions and listening to the response.

Questions need to be asked around a structured framework, such as the Coaching ARROW described in my book, Coaching at Work.

About the Author

Matt Somers is a coaching practitioner of many years’ experience. He works with a host of clients in North East England where his firm is based and throughout the UK and Europe. Matt understands that people are working with their true potential locked away. He shows how coaching provides a simple yet elegant key to this lock. For a bumper load of coaching tips and tricks – including FREE resources – visit http://www.mattsomers.com

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THE PRINCIPLES OF CREATING WEALTH: How to Start a Business and be Super Rich

Article by Okon E. Promise

Assuming 100 people are asked to choose between wealth and poverty, I have no doubt in my mind that all the 100 people will opt for wealth. Wealth is something that a lot of people are struggling to achieve. I know of people who have lost huge amount of money and resources, in the process of trying to achieve wealth. A lot of people have tried to acquire wealth without being successful.

Many cannot do or even go to bed without thinking of how to become rich in life- they want to become like Bill Gate, one of the richest man they all know. Many have done all sorts of numerous things in order to become wealth. Some People have decided to remain poor since they think the wealthy people like Bill Gate or Warren Buffet are born with silver spoon in their mouths. THIS IS A WRONG PERCEPTION OF WEALTH. The truth is that many people are poor because of their negative mindset about money/wealth.

If you want to create wealth you must first create value that people can pay you money for it. The value is money. You must first create money in the mind before it metamorphose into physical cash. In few words, “the mind is the only machine that can manufacture anything we want”. If you have made up your mind to be poor, then you will remain poor except something important is urgently done to pull you out of the condition.

The financial condition you are today is as a result of the decision you made in your mind in the past. The financial condition you will find yourself tomorrow or in the future will be the result of the decision you will make today

There is power in the mind/thought. All good or bad things today are the products of the mind and thought. You have to be positive in order to achieve worthy things. Without positive mindset, Bill Gate wouldn’t have been a wealthy person. He knows how to make use of his mind to get what he wants out of life. If you must achieve wealth, it is the right time you learn how to conceive thing (including money) in your mind- positively.

You have the ‘money-making’ power inside of you. You don’t need to roam around the street searching for wealth- money don’t grow on trees. Your mind already carries your wealth, no matter its proportion or amount. Create (think) that riches you want first in your mind first and work towards it physical manifestation. When you do this, you will see it come to reality. Many may not believe in this because of their negative mindset that gives them nothing good but further constraint them to poverty and sorrow.

Anyway, no mater how you come across this article, consider it a ticket to your financial prosperity because its ultimate aim is to reveal the secret rich people are using in raking money into their bank account. Most of them, especially in the ‘poor countries’, are hiding the secrets of wealth creation from the ordinary people. This article will show you how to fatten you bank account and always laughing when visiting your bank. After reading this article, your bank manager and his/her staffs will start sending your gifts in order not to loose you to any other bank.

THE TRUTHS ABOUT WEALTH CREATION

Ok, enough of firing your financial spirit high, let get to the main point. But before I lead you directly to where your wealth is residing, let me tell you that:

(1) You cannot be rich without having anything doing(2) You cannot be rich by folding your handing and expecting miracle to happen(3) You cannot be rich when you are negative minded(4) You cannot be rich without having the desire to learn from wealthy/successful people(5) You cannot be rich stealing public fund (poor mindset)(6) You cannot be rich when procrastinating, and(7) You cannot be rich without action

HOW DO YOU CREATE WEALTH?

Big Secret Revealed- “One of the best and surest ways to create wealth is to start a business”. In order to start a business and be wealthy, you must first:

(1) Have Idea: As we all knows, idea rules the world.

(2) Create your idea into quality product/service: You must have something or value that is important to peoples’ needs.

(3) Have a Plan: If you fail to plan, you have planned to fail.

(4) Have a Business Name: Do this so that customers can differentiate/recognize you.

(5) Have Mission and Vision Statement: This is very important for your business.(6) Create Marketing Plan: After you have identify your target customers you need to create a good marketing plan/strategies to make your products or services reach them.

(7) Have a financial Record: In order to manage your business effectively, you need to have a good financial record- to know where money is coming from, how it is being spent, etc.

(8) Learn to Manage Your Customers: Lost customers are not always lost. You need to put strategies in place to help you win and keep customers. Remember that “without customers no business can succeed”.

(9) Learn to Take Good Care Of Your Employees: Your employees are the foundation upon which your business lie on. So, take good care of them.

(10) Read Books Related To Your Idea: There are enough information/ideas on books related to your idea that can help empower you in bringing your idea(s) to reality.

Stop Procrastination: Procrastination is the thief of time. ACT NOW

TOOLS NEEDED TO START A BUSINESS

Office or HomeBusiness CardComputerBusiness Bank AccountLetter Head & EnvelopesTelephone Number(s) with easy-to remember numbersPen and PaperWebsite/blogInternet accessNetwork/peers (C.E.O., Lawyers, Accountants, Sales Persons, etc)

WARNING- Don’t just be reader but also be a doer. One big trouble blocking poor people’s way of becoming rich is that they don’t practice what they know. After reading the tips in this article, try as much to put them into practice and you will surely be on your way to become wealthy.

You will succeed.

About the Author

Okon E. Promise is a publisher and the CEO of PROSKON PUBLISHING – http://www.proskonpublishing.com – He is a speaker, writer and consultant on business, leadership and entrepreneurship development. Promise Okon is a honest, caring, disciplined, and open-minded author. He lives in Lagos, Nigeria.

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